Confession: I haven't been a very good home professional in the kitchen in the last couple of years. I think I made promises, which have not been fulfilled, when I got the subway tile in the kitchen I wanted for so many years. I love it. I love looking at it. Clean.
Paul has made his feelings about this known for quite a while; first in passive-aggressive hints, "Is there a plan for dinner?", then, "What's for dinner?", now full-blown, "Where the hell is dinner?". I understand. He works hard all day and provides a lifestyle, while not glamorous, I have nothing to complain about. And I'm at home near the kitchen all day. I do have a small business and work on my art, do laundry, bathrooms (3 boys), floors, etc. But I have more time in the proximity of the kitchen. I've tried telling him that I've been doing this for over 30 years, but it's not his fault; he's only been here the last 15. I'm sick of my own cooking. Can I hear an AMEN Sisters?
The guilt got to me enough where I started out doing better by having Giant deliver the groceries. Then I improved by jumping up from the computer/t.v./art project to thaw something in the microwave and search for a side dish in the freezer as soon as I heard his car drive up.
Recently, however, I've tried to make a real improvement. And it doesn't hurt that Paul, purposely or not, is so pathetically thankful when he gets a meal. I'm not saying I'm Martha. Been there, done that, no medals. But I've been starting to think about dinner before 5 p.m.
Today I thought a little more in advance, something easy but really yummy and I haven't made it so many times that we want to throw up whenever we see it. I'll share it here:
Cheddar-Tomato Pie
2 deep dish pie crusts, can you guess whether or not I make them from scratch? Used to.
1 large can plum tomatoes, peeled and sliced-I use 2 standard cans of stewed tomatoes, drained
1/4 cup fresh basil...yeah, right...sprinkle some dried on
1 cup cheddar or provolone or mozzarella-I use mozzarella
1/3 cup mayo
2 T lemon juice
1/2 cup more cheese
Arrange tomatoes in pie crust in pan and sprinkle with basil. Top with 1 cup of cheese. In a small bowl, stir together mayo and lemon juice. Spoon over tomatoes in pie and top with the remaining cheese. Place the other crust on top and pinch and cut some slits. ****Cover edge with foil and bake at 375 for 25 minutes, remove foil, and bake another 15-20 minutes more or until golden. Yum. Serve with a salad, corn on the cob, and it's a meal.
****This is where my musing started. The recipe said "cover edge with foil". As I was cutting my foil in strips, I thought I remembered buying something from Pampered Chef years ago that was just for this situation. So I go digging around the kitchen and didn't find it. It did, however, remind me of all those Pampered Chef parties I went to when Matt was a baby. Can you imagine needing to get out of the house so badly that...okay, we've all been there. And we had only lived here a few months when I had Matt so I had double the reasons for getting the hell out. Bible study and weekly play group were great but that was during the day with Matt in tow. All those Tupperware and fun wear parties. I went to everything I was invited to. Then one day, the heavens parted and I was asked to my first Bunko party. Oh how that saved not only my sanity, my social life, but was fun~eating and drinking and adult conversations.
Now that our kids are big and busy, we don't see each other, and I miss the camaraderie. Ebb and flow, flow and ebb. Maybe a good New Year's resolution~make real, monthly or whatever, plans with those groups of women. In the meantime, I give Paul 5 more years to collect take-out menus which will be his choices for dinner when Matt goes to college.
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